Because I don't fucking believe you. Tell me I'm an uncommunicative asshole, I'm shit in bed, I never call anymore, because it's got to be something if you'd rather take your chances out there than spend another day with me.

( and here are wesley's trust issues right back. if he's getting abandoned he'd like to know the actual reason why because the last time he didn't he paid for it with a life of soul-sucking mediocrity and spinelessness. and he knows he's got flaws. he knows he can be a prick. he'd rather be told that than be conned down gently. )