it's probably both

[ he's almost too good at this, to the point where it isn't even fun to be sloppy with her footwork anymore. but far be it for her to let this turn into some sort of professional, uppity affair (affair was a good word for it). no, she would not stand up straight for this, nor stop knocking his knees with hers or stepping on his feet every so often. ]

[ she leans on him, too, preventing this from being too classy and romantic an encounter, though the damper asha is boldly trying to put on her uninhibited actions is rather ruined by the soft, wet kiss she places on his jaw bone. ]

I think you'd look dashing in a maid's apron. [ she breaths against his skin before dissolving into a chuckle. ]