Narvin solved Kay's dilemma by putting Kay's hand on his waist.

"Oh, wait just a moment." He took his handheld computer out of his pocket and one-handly pushed a few buttons until it began to play a slow song, then resumed dancing position.

"I simply wanted to try something." His first attempt at traditional human-style seduction was (as he later found out) full of errors. Coffee beans were not an acceptable plant substitute for rose petals. He'd done more research since then. (This time he'd sprinkled the bed with some unfortunately suggestive anthurium flowers. Narvin didn't notice the phallic nature, just that they were flowers and they were red. That's basically like a rose.)